Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: A Transformational Guide by Dr. Joe Dispenza

Have you ever heard the phrase, Ask the universe, and it will provide? I used to think this was purely a spiritual concept, but Dr. Joe Dispenza’s book, Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, explains the science behind how we can change our lives to create abundance and joy.

The book is detailed yet easy to understand, providing real-life examples of people who have transformed their lives using these principles. One of my favorite stories is about Dr. Dispenza’s daughter, who set an intention for something to happen and, as she remained open to receiving, opportunities naturally came her way.

I have personally experienced the power of future visualization in changing my own life. Before having my boys, I loved scuba diving, but I always struggled with equalizing my ears. This became my story on every dive, I expected difficulty descending. When we booked a family diving holiday, I wanted to enjoy the experience instead of feeling anxious.

So, I started visualizing myself diving effortlessly, feeling confident, and surfacing with the biggest smile. When the day of the dive arrived, I felt completely different calm, focused, and in control. Almost immediately, I realized I was underweighted, which turned out to be the root of my past equalizing issues. That simple realization changed everything, and I ended up having the most incredible diving experience of my life.

This book has shown me that we truly have the power to break free from old habits and create a new reality.

I would totally recommend this book if you ever felt stuck in the same patterns, repeating the same habits, and wondering why your life isn’t changing. Dr. Joe Dispenza’s book, Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One, provides a compelling answer: you’re wired to stay the same, but you have the power to rewire yourself for transformation.

This book blends neuroscience, quantum physics, and meditation techniques to help readers break free from their subconscious programming and create a new, empowered reality. If you’re ready to step out of old habits and into a life of possibility, Dispenza’s teachings offer a roadmap for profound personal change.

Key Concepts from the Book

1. Your Personality Creates Your Personal Reality

Dispenza argues that our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors form a cycle that dictates our reality. If we keep thinking the same thoughts, we feel the same emotions, which lead to the same behaviour’s, ultimately reinforcing our existing reality. To change our lives, we must first change our minds.

2. The Science of Change: Rewiring Your Brain

Drawing from neuroscience, Dispenza explains that our brains become hardwired with repetitive thought patterns. These thoughts create neural pathways that strengthen over time, making it difficult to break habits. However, neuroplasticity, the brain’s ability to rewire itself allows us to create new thought patterns and in turn, a new reality.

3. The Role of Quantum Physics: Mind Over Matter

A core idea in the book is that our thoughts and emotions have the power to influence the quantum field, shaping our experiences. Dispenza suggests that by shifting our focus and emotional state, we can attract new possibilities and align with the life we desire.

4. Meditation as the Key to Transformation

The practical application of these concepts lies in meditation. Dispenza’s guided meditations help individuals break free from their old self and reprogram their subconscious. Through deep focus, visualization, and emotional engagement, we can shift our energy and create real change.

How to Apply These Principles in Daily Life

Become Aware of Your Thoughts: Recognize negative or limiting thoughts and consciously shift them to more empowering ones.

Reprogram Your Mind Through Meditation: Dedicate time to meditation to rewire your brain and set new intentions for your future.

Feel the Emotions of Your Desired Future: Instead of waiting for an external change to feel happy or successful, practice embodying these emotions now.

Take Inspired Action: Align your daily actions with the new identity you’re creating.

Final Thoughts

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself is more than just a book, it’s a transformational guide to changing your mind, body, and life. Whether you’re looking to overcome limiting beliefs, heal from past traumas, or create a future filled with abundance and joy, Dispenza’s insights offer a powerful framework for personal evolution.


Jane Woodcock